5 Calm-Down Rituals with Warmies for Neurodivergent Families
For little brains that run fast and big hearts that feel deep — here are five gentle rituals using Warmies that help regulate, reconnect, and bring a little peace into your home.
Whether you’re raising a sensory-seeking child or are a neurodivergent mum yourself, the world can often feel a little too loud. That’s where soft rituals matter. They help the body feel safe again.
Warmies — microwaveable, lavender-scented, and gently weighted plush toys — have become a staple in our calm-down toolbox. They’re comforting without needing words. Soothing without being overwhelming. And they make the perfect emotional anchor in daily routines.
1. Bedtime Regulation Buddy
Heat up a Warmie and place it on your child’s tummy while lying down. The weight signals the nervous system to settle, while the lavender promotes natural calm. Add in a slow breathing game: “Watch your Warmie rise and fall. Let’s breathe like them.”
2. Transition Helper
Transitions — from screen time to dinner, or play to school — can be explosive for ND kids. Create a “switch-over snuggle” where they get a Warmie for five minutes before a transition. It becomes a gentle buffer instead of a hard stop.
3. Calm Corner Anchor
Set up a quiet corner with a Warmie, some noise-cancelling headphones, and visual cards for feelings. Instead of timeout, offer this as a “come back to your body” space. Weighted warmth soothes the amygdala like nothing else.
4. Morning Soft Start
For children who wake overwhelmed or slow to regulate, start with five minutes of Warmie snuggles in bed or on the sofa. Let their body adjust to the day before engaging in anything that requires effort or social energy.
5. Mum’s Micro-Ritual
You matter too. Pop your Warmie in the microwave, press it against your chest, lie flat, and let your cortisol melt. Just 7 minutes of sensory warmth can ground you through meltdowns, burnout, or just bedtime chaos.
đź’¸ Where to Get One (with Discount Codes)
I recommend shopping via the official Warmies UK site. It’s the best place to find their full range — including the beloved Highland Cow, Axolotl, and classic Curly Bear.
- WARMIES10 – 10% off £10
- WARMIES15 – 15% off £20
- WARMIES20 – 20% off £50
- FREEDELIVERY25 – Free delivery over £25
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