Parenting Tweens: Surviving Drama, Social Media, and Sass
Parenting tweens is like stepping into a world of chaos, comedy, and unpredictability. Those magical years when your sweet little kids transform into opinionated, TikTok-obsessed, eye-rolling enigmas can test even the most patient parent. Add social media into the mix, and you’re not just raising kids -you’re managing tiny PR disasters who think “cringe” is your middle name.
As a mum of two girls (ages 9 and 11), I’m right in the thick of it. Between navigating tween meltdowns and trying to keep up with slang that changes faster than I can Google it, life is an unpredictable mix of laughter and exhaustion. Parenting tweens isn’t for the faint-hearted, but it sure keeps things interesting.
The Tween Emotional Weather Forecast: Parenting Tweens Is Unpredictable
Every day with tweens starts with a gamble. Will it be sunshine and rainbows? Or will it be thunderstorms and slammed doors? Their emotions are a whirlwind, shifting dramatically from one moment to the next.
One second, they’re cuddly and sweet, asking for a hug. The next, they’re telling you not to breathe too loudly in their presence. It’s like living with tiny celebrities who have a love-hate relationship with their biggest fan: you.
Pro Tip: Keep snacks handy. You’d be amazed how many tween meltdowns can be resolved with a packet of crisps or a chocolate bar.
Social Media and Parenting Tweens: A Double-Edged Sword
Social media is a big part of parenting tweens. It’s where they learn dances you’ll never master, find memes that make no sense to you, and develop an inflated sense of fame because 12 people liked their post.
As a parent, it’s equal parts hilarious and terrifying. Sure, they’re just posting selfies now, but one poorly thought-out caption can lead to a week-long family debate about what’s appropriate.
My Rule of Thumb: If they want to join a platform, they must sit through a lecture on online safety and why “delete” never actually means delete. Bonus points if you embarrass them with examples of your own social media fails.
Surviving the Tween Sass Olympics
Instead of arguing, I’ve learned to meet sass with humour. For example:
- Tween: “Why do I have to clean my room? It’s my space!”
- Me: “Because I pay the rent, and your ‘space’ smells like crisps and regret.”
It’s not about winning. It’s about staying sane while reminding them who’s boss.
Finding Moments of Connection With Tweens
Amidst all the chaos, there are golden moments that make parenting tweens worthwhile. Whether it’s when they tell you about their day, laugh at your jokes, or snuggle up for a family movie, these moments are precious.
I’ve found that just listening (without immediately turning it into a life lesson) works wonders. Let them vent about school drama or share their latest TikTok obsession. You might even pick up some slang that makes you feel marginally cool—for about five minutes.
Self-Care Is Essential for Parents of Tweens
Parenting tweens is exhausting. Between refereeing arguments, dodging eye rolls, and keeping up with their evolving interests, it’s easy to forget about yourself. But here’s the thing: you can’t pour from an empty cup.
Whether it’s a long bath, a quiet coffee, or locking yourself in the bathroom for five minutes of peace, prioritising self-care is non-negotiable. You deserve it. Besides, they’ll survive as long as there’s Wi-Fi and snacks.
Parenting tweens is a wild ride, filled with drama, humour, and moments of heartwarming connection. They’re testing boundaries, growing up, and figuring out who they are—and you’re right there beside them, Googling slang and questioning your life choices.
The key is balance: letting them be their chaotic tween selves while reminding them that you’re still in charge. So here’s to surviving the sass, embracing the laughs, and stealing those occasional moments of peace. You’ve got this. ✨
