School Suspensions and Exclusions: Your Rights in England (2026)
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In England, if your child attends a mainstream school you can deregister them to home educate without anyone’s permission, even with an EHCP: you write to the head teacher and the school removes them from roll under regulation 9(1)(f) of the School Attendance (Pupil Registration) (England) Regulations 2024. The key exception is a special school arranged by the local authority, where you must get the LA’s written consent first under regulation 9(2).
Choosing to home educate a child with special educational needs or disabilities (SEND) is a real and lawful option in the UK. Parents have a duty under section 7 of the Education Act 1996 to secure a suitable, efficient, full-time education for their child, “either by regular attendance at school or otherwise”. The word “otherwise” is what makes home education legal, and it applies to children with SEND and to children with an Education, Health and Care (EHC) plan just as it does to any other child.
Home education is an option, not a verdict on school
It is one lawful way to educate a child in England and it sits alongside school, not above it. It suits some families and not others. Plenty of children are happy and well taught at school, and plenty of the parents who write to us end up staying and getting things put right there instead.
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Nothing on this page is an argument for taking your child out. It is not an argument for keeping them in either. We write the law and the numbers down plainly so that whichever way you go, you go knowing what is actually true, because most people are handed a decision and almost none of the picture.
If school is the right place and something in it is going wrong, that is usually the thing worth sorting first. Your child’s right to an education is the same either way.
What trips families up is the process of coming off the school roll. The rules are different depending on the type of school your child attends, and this is the single most important thing to get right. This guide explains the position in England, with a brief note on Wales where it differs.
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Get the System for £49 →No. If your child attends a mainstream school, you do not need anyone’s permission to deregister them, and this is true even if they have an EHC plan. You simply write to the head teacher stating that your child will no longer attend after a stated date and will receive education otherwise than at school. The school must then remove your child from the admission register.
The current legal basis in England is regulation 9(1)(f) of the School Attendance (Pupil Registration) (England) Regulations 2024. This ground applies where “a parent of the pupil has told the proprietor in writing that the pupil will no longer attend the school after a certain day and will receive education otherwise than at school”. Once that day has passed, and provided no school attendance order is in force, the school deletes the child from roll. These 2024 Regulations replaced the older Education (Pupil Registration) (England) Regulations 2006, so if you come across guidance referring to “regulation 8”, it is describing the old rule. The principle is unchanged, but the current citation is regulation 9.
The school cannot refuse, delay for its own reasons, or insist on a meeting first. The EHC plan does not change this. A mainstream placement, even one named in an EHC plan, does not require local authority consent to leave.
No, not if the local authority arranged the place. If your child attends a special school, and they were placed there under arrangements made by the local authority, you cannot simply write to the head and have them removed. You must first obtain the local authority’s written consent.
This is set out at regulation 9(2) of the School Attendance (Pupil Registration) (England) Regulations 2024. It provides that where a compulsory-school-age pupil became registered at a special school under arrangements made by a local authority, the school’s proprietor must not delete the pupil from the register unless the local authority that made the arrangements has given its consent, or the authority has refused consent but the Secretary of State has directed that the name be deleted. A short list of unrelated grounds is exempt, such as the death of the pupil or permanent exclusion, but none of those apply to a family choosing home education.
In plain terms:
The reason for the extra step is that the child’s placement at that special school was the local authority discharging its own legal duty to arrange the special educational provision in the EHC plan. The consent requirement lets the authority check that the child’s needs will still be met before it steps back. It is not meant to be a veto on home education in principle, and it should not be used as one.
The EHC plan stays in place. A common myth is that home educating “loses” the EHC plan. It does not. Deregistering your child does not automatically cause the EHC plan to cease. The plan stays live and the local authority remains responsible for it.
Key points to hold onto:
No, and the difference decides who pays. It is worth being clear about a distinction that catches families out. “Education otherwise than at school” (EOTAS) in the technical SEND sense is where the local authority itself decides, under section 61 of the Children and Families Act 2014, that it would be inappropriate for the provision in the plan to be made in a school, and the authority then arranges and funds that package. That is different from elective home education, where you as the parent choose to take on the education yourself. With elective home education you are making your own arrangements, so the funding and delivery become your responsibility, even though the plan stays open. If your case is really one where no school can meet your child’s needs, it may be worth exploring an LA-arranged EOTAS package rather than elective home education, because the funding position is very different.
Not yet. You may have read that the law on taking children out of school is tightening. That is true, but the timing matters. The Children’s Wellbeing and Schools Act 2026 received Royal Assent on 29 April 2026. Among other things it introduces compulsory “Children Not in School” registers in every local authority in England, and it strengthens the consent requirements before certain children can be withdrawn for home education, specifically children who are subject to a child protection enquiry or plan (or were recently), and children at special schools.
The important point for families right now is that most of these new register and consent measures are not yet in force. They will be commenced on dates set by later regulations. As at 28 September 2026, sections 37 to 39 of the Act (local authority involvement in withdrawal from school, the register of children not in school, and the new school attendance order rules) are in force only for the purpose of making regulations, so they do not yet apply to families. Until then, the rules described above are what apply. We keep a plain-English breakdown in our guide to the 2026 Act.
Note too that the special-school consent rule is not a new invention of the 2026 Act. It already exists today in regulation 9(2) of the 2024 Regulations, and existed before that under the 2006 Regulations. So if your child is at a local-authority-arranged special school, you need the authority’s consent now, regardless of the 2026 Act’s commencement timetable.
For a mainstream school (including with an EHC plan):
For a special school arranged by the local authority:
Our deregistration letter generator will produce the right letter for your situation, including the special-school route, and our local-authority response generator helps with the reply once the council writes back. The GOV.UK elective home education guidance sets out the expectations on both sides, and the wider SEND system is described in the GOV.UK guidance on children with special educational needs.
There is no fixed statutory deadline by which a local authority must decide whether to consent to removal from a special school register. In practice authorities will often convene an early or interim review of the EHC plan once you notify them. That is reasonable, but it should be done promptly and should not be used to stall a genuine decision indefinitely.
If consent is delayed:
If consent is refused:
The position in Wales is similar in principle but rests on different regulations. The relevant rules are in the Education (Pupil Registration) (Wales) Regulations 2010. As in England, a parent does not need local authority permission to deregister from a mainstream school, but a child at a special school arranged by the local authority cannot be removed from roll until the authority agrees. If you are in Wales, follow the Welsh Government’s elective home education guidance rather than the GOV.UK pages.
This article is general information about the law in England (with a note on Wales) and is not a substitute for individual advice about your child’s situation. For SEND matters it is always worth speaking to your local SENDIASS or an independent SEND adviser before you act.
Related: NHS Right to Choose for ADHD and autism assessment, and why an EHCP does not require a diagnosis in the first place.
Free tool: the EHC needs assessment request letter generator, which works whether or not your child is on a school roll.
Already been refused?
The free tools above cover the deadline. If you want the full argument, The EHC Assessment Refusal Appeal Pack sets out the six reasons councils give and what is wrong with each, how to get your mediation certificate, form SEND35A, and model wording to build your grounds of appeal from. £39. Independent SEND consultants and advocates charge several hundred pounds upwards for the same job. Free help from SENDIASS and IPSEA comes first if money is tight.
More on this: everything we have on SEND, EHCPs and neurodivergent kids is gathered in the SEND hub, including the free EHC needs assessment letter generator.
What your council actually does
In 2025, councils in England refused 29% of the EHC needs assessment requests they decided, and only 45.5% of all plans were issued inside the legal 20 weeks. Both vary enormously by area. See the refusal rate and waiting time for every council, or go straight to your own council.
The plan does not stand still once it is issued: see the EHCP annual review timeline, including the four week decision deadline and the eight weeks for an amended plan.
This is information, not legal advice
Darling Mellow is a parenting website. We are not solicitors, we are not regulated to give legal advice, and nothing here is advice about your particular child or situation. We write about the law in England, we date everything and we link our sources so you can check them. Deadlines and duties change, and only you know your full circumstances, so please take proper advice before making a decision that matters.
Where to get free or regulated advice
If you are in Wales, Scotland or Northern Ireland, the law and the services differ and you should use your own nation’s guidance.
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