Home Educating an Anxious Child or After School Avoidance (EBSA) in the UK
Quick answer Many families turn to home education when a child becomes too anxious to attend...

To home educate, you deregister by sending a short written notice to the head teacher stating you are withdrawing your child to educate them at home. You do not need permission from the school or the local authority, and the school must remove your child from the admission register. The one exception is a special school the local authority placed your child in, which needs the LA’s consent first. (Education Act 1996, section 7.)
Deciding to home educate is the big, brave part. The actual deregistration, the official process of taking your child off the school roll, is usually far simpler than parents fear. For most families it is a single letter. This guide walks you through exactly how to deregister your child from school in the UK, with a letter template you can copy, and what to expect afterwards.
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In England and Wales, home education is completely legal. Under Section 7 of the Education Act 1996, it is the parent’s duty to ensure their child receives a suitable, full-time education “either by regular attendance at school or otherwise”. The word “otherwise” means home. You do not need permission, you do not need teaching qualifications, and you do not need to follow the national curriculum.
Before you do anything, answer this: has your child actually been attending a school?
Copy this, fill in the brackets, and send it to the head teacher. Keep it brief and factual.
Re: [Child’s full name], date of birth [DOB], [Class/Year]
I am writing to inform you that I am withdrawing my child, [name], from [school name] with effect from [date], as I am taking up my responsibility to educate them at home.
Please remove [name] from the school’s admission register under Regulation 9(1)(f) of the School Attendance (Pupil Registration) (England) Regulations 2024, and confirm in writing once this has been done.
Yours sincerely,
[Your name]
[Date]
Once the school removes your child from the register, they must inform the local authority. It is normal and expected for the LA to then make “informal enquiries” to check that a suitable education is being provided. This is not a problem and not a sign you have done anything wrong. You can reply in writing, usually with a short summary of your educational approach, and you are generally not obliged to meet in person or to let officials into your home. Stay calm, polite and factual, and keep copies of all correspondence.
You may have seen worrying headlines. The Children’s Wellbeing and Schools Act 2026 received Royal Assent on 29 April 2026. It will introduce a statutory register of children not in school and new local-authority powers. Crucially, these measures are not yet in force and are not expected to take effect before 2027, subject to regulations and consultation. As of today, the process in this guide still applies. Always check the live position on GOV.UK before you act, especially as the register approaches.
For a mainstream school, no. You give written notice to the head teacher and the school must remove your child from the register. You do not need permission from the school or the local authority. The exception is a special school where the local authority placed your child, in which case you need the LA's consent first.
Keep it brief and factual: state that you are withdrawing your child to educate them at home from a given date, and ask the school to remove them from the admission register under Regulation 9(1)(f) of the School Attendance (Pupil Registration) (England) Regulations 2024 and to confirm in writing. A full template is included in this guide.
The school removes your child from the register and notifies the local authority, which will usually make informal enquiries to check a suitable education is being provided. This is routine. You can reply in writing with a short summary of your approach and are generally not required to meet in person or admit officials to your home.
No. The Children's Wellbeing and Schools Act 2026 received Royal Assent on 29 April 2026 and will bring in a register and new powers, but these are not yet in force and are not expected before 2027. The right to home educate and the deregistration process described here currently still apply. Always check GOV.UK for the latest position.
More answers: see our complete UK Home Education FAQ, covering the 20 questions UK parents ask most about home educating.
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